Love.....

Sooo it one of those nights. One where you sit and think about life...why are we here why have we been delta the hand we are living..... who and what should we be? Something I keep thinking recently is.

Is love ever enough???

I know that we have to love our children as well as wanting to of course!!! But that is a love that will never go! Ever!! But I worry loving them surely isn't enough? They need guide nice and protection, to be cared for and nurture'd. For my children I know love is not enough.

My relationship. No details needed but like any relationship it has not been smooth nor easy 100% of the time and when I think I know with all my heart that I love him to the moon and back 10 x over. Yet if we didn't have the time for each other or talk. We couldn't have the relationship we do. Taking time to just appreciate each other and what you do withing the relationship and the house hold. To take the time to listen and watch just so you can see how your other half is and lives. Essentially  you need to become each other. Love is not enough to make a relation ship work.

Next time u say I love you make sure ur not just saying it make sure you know feel and believe it. We take advantage of the fact words come so easy but to actually feel! Feel the love for someone and know that not only you love them but u understand them and they understand you that means an awful lot more!

Xxxx

How to Start...?

After writing last time I went away thinking 'Oh I should have written this and this ohh and that!'

However after spending some time I have come to the conclusion that there can't be a right way can there?

Anyway as we go along I'm sure I will learn and improve.

So for my next post I honestly wasn't to sure where to start... I don't want to write something that put me into a genre or something that was so personal that it become overly emotional. So as I have 3 children I have decided to talk a little about summer holidays!

I have 3 children all very close in age and all very much hard work and full of endless energy. My two boys, 4 years old and 2 years old and then my fairly new 5 month old daughter. My boys have both been in nursery this year only finishing there school year last week, and yet I am already feeling the pressure to fore fill every single day with things to do. so in very few days I feel we have already achieved loads!



Well I say loads It has consisted of many many walks many with my children's Auntie as she is recovering from something very serious and it is very important for her to exercise daily. We also chose to spend and whole day walking around the area we live so we walked to the supermarket 1.5 miles away then from there we walked on to a large country park a further 2 miles away stopped to have a picnic in which it decided to rain on us and then walked all the way back! A very good way to exhaust your children! But also we saw all sorts of wildlife and the kids loved all these new thing you don't typically see living almost in a town centre. Caterpillars, grasshoppers, different leaves and trees and odd looking flowers.

My eldest has been booked into swimming lessons, he goes once a week and has so far done two! and next week he will be starting an intensive course! y eldest is my most loving and caring. He has this amazing quality to want to know and be able to do anything and everything, so even from him being a tiny baby in water you could tell he just wanted to be 'set free' in a sense. He is loving it and I honestly cant wait to see him grow and develop.



We managed to go for a lovely walk around another country park but then we stopped for some killer deserts at our local Kaspas! My children were more than impressed!

We spent a large amount of a day digging up vegetables and planting new ones in the garden! We learnt a few lessons along the way. so had to go shopping for a bigger tub for our potato's, and we now know we do not have the space for carrots ( our fully grown carrots would have only been suitable for fairies!) but trough the summer this gives the kids something to love and nurture especially on the empty days!.

......and that seems to have been it really, however I have many things planned at as little cost as possible, a maze in a corn field, I'm going to be taking advantage of the Groupon offer to Bristol Zoo! in the past we very much enjoyed the Gromet hunt so we cant wait to experience the Shaun the Sheep one! as well as general things that we will have the time to fit in now like a family swim, movie days on daddy's days off.

With my plans of the summer shared I will leave on that note.

Night to myself and anyone who happens to be reading

xxxx

Just to say Hello.....x

First of all.................HELLO!

Hello to anyone who chooses to read this. Let me start by saying I have never been the best writer, nor speller or any good at explaining things. Yet I still want to write this to show myself and others that normal people can do this, and selfishly Ive always anted to have a go. I want to let you in on things a randomly think of, problems I may come across with everyday life, children, siblings, spouse, work and home life. I want to be able to express.

The purpose...... to free my mind and let out a lot that I don't talk about that just seems to be taking up space.

About me.....

My name is Candice. I am currently on maternity leave after having my daughter. My life right now consist majority of school runs and argument's about tidying toys and trying to stop my two boys from running round the house in there pants all day......Why do boys enjoy being naked so much?? ever since being a young girl I knew I wanted to be a mummy. I think Ive always had that Maternal instinct, from being the "mother" or "auntie" figure at school and even in past work places. I just seem to be that person people can lean on or talk to and I seem to have the time and patience's for anyone and things that seems to be going on.

Somethings that are important to me. Without having to say it obviously my Family.
But something else that really matters to me... Being able to enjoy things in life... things that make life enjoyable for me being able to watch my children grow weather that be in an educational sense, personal sense, physically. I love to be able to see them grow and smile even if its about the simple things.... like when they know there being naughty saying the word poop.... you cant help but burst into laughter there just seems to be something hilarious about a 4 year old and a 2 year old saying poop!! being able to dress them beautifully and provide them small thins they enjoy a £1 pair of sunglasses or a small minion wallet. Something else I think is important spending all the time in the world with my family, weather it be my partner and children or my sister mum and dad all these people mean the world to me and come first over everything!! then the luxuries in life something I love and enjoy, more than I really should, FOOD! I love to be able to enjoy great food and even trying the new products out in the supermarkets. I love tasting and trying and being able to pass on my experiences and view on this simple thing!

But really all I wanted to do was say hello and try and give you a little look at me.....

So hello BlogLand I look forward to getting involved even

if it ends up just being me and the page x